Polyamory & ethical non-monogamy therapy — Melbourne & telehealth

Non-monogamy isn't the problem we're solving for.

Opening a relationship for practical reasons, working through a mismatch when one partner's polyamory is simply who they are, or bringing a whole polycule into the room — this is ordinary work here, not a special accommodation. The therapy starts from what's actually going on between you, not from a crash course in what ethical non-monogamy is.

To be clear: you don't need to be non-monogamous to work with us. Plenty of our relationship therapy clients are monogamous — this page just speaks directly to poly, ENM, and multi-partner work specifically.

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Who this is for

Couples opening their relationship for practical reasons — a desire difference, not an identity crisis
People whose polyamory is a settled part of who they are, navigating a mismatch with a partner still catching up
Polycules and multi-partner households who want everyone's dynamics in the room, not just the two who made the booking
Swingers and lifestyle-community members who've put off therapy because they assumed a "normal" therapist would call the lifestyle the problem
Metamours, co-parents, and partners of partners — the people therapy usually forgets exist

What to expect

A therapist who already knows what a metamour, a hinge, or a polycule is
Sessions built for more than two people, when more than two people are actually in the relationship
Practical frameworks for jealousy, disclosure, and scheduling, alongside deeper identity work when that's what it is
Online across Australia, or in person at our Carlton office

Why Unison, not a generalist clinic?

Non-monogamy and multi-partner therapy are close to the reason Unison exists, not a service bolted onto a mainstream practice afterward. Our clinicians have sat with enough polycules, metamour dynamics, and "is this a phase or who I am" conversations that none of it needs pre-explaining.

Therapists who work in this space

Natasha Lama

Counsellor & Sex Therapist · she/her

Natasha is a registered psychotherapist with a Master's in Counselling and specialised clinical training in sex therapy. She offers inclusive sex therapy, multicultural counselling, and sex-positive, relationship-diverse care.

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Nash Mbani

Mental Health Nurse & Holistic Counsellor · she/her

Nash is a South African-born, Melbourne-based therapist with over 20 years of experience as a registered psychiatric nurse, including a long history facilitating group therapy. She blends clinical nursing expertise with holistic counselling, focusing on somatic healing and nervous system regulation. Relationships are where she believes most healing actually happens, and she brings that into her work with couples as well as individual, polyamorous, and non-monogamous clients.

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Meg Wilson

Founder, Psychotherapist · she/her

Meg is the founder and lead psychotherapist for Unison. For over a decade, she has integrated clinical psychotherapy with creative art therapies and systemic relationship models, with a special focus on non-typical relationship structures.

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Ready when you are.

Start with a free 15-minute fit call — a real conversation with a therapist, not a sales pitch. If it isn’t the right fit, we’ll say so and point you somewhere better.

Unison is not a crisis service. If you are in immediate danger call 000, or contact Lifeline 24/7 on 13 11 14.